Peace & Love,

...by now I could have, ...by now I should have ... What a dangerous game that is. Could and Should have never whisked success into anyone's life. On the contrary, they've done the exact opposite. Could've & Should've put on their fancy party dresses and seduce one into believing that by pondering on a could or a should they will become successful. Instead, the twins activate a downward spiraling frequency in people who have mistakenly put their trust in them.

We succeed because we try. You know the old adage, "if at first you don't succeed, brush yourself off and try again." ...well actually, we are going to add, "try again and again and again until you receive desired results. When you arrive at that point, you will better understand your recipe for success.

Could have and Should have are dingy outdated concepts which thrive on other people's perspectives about what you could or should be doing with your life. If you missed it, the operative word in the aforementioned sentence is your, as in your life. It's YOUR LIFE! You have unique talents and gifts that only you can deliver in such a magical way which only you can unfold. Your magnificent skills will be maximized once you allow others to stop "coulding" and "shoulding" on you. You do it! By your doing "the thing" you're activating "the power" inside of you as only you can.

"In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing is nothing." - President Theodore Roosevelt.

So, are you clear about what you want? Pray about it, write it out, get excited about it!!! Think about and act on your definite purpose daily. It is in the thinking and acting that your manifestation shows itself. We are not waiting for something to show up, instead, we are getting clear about our goals and clearing the path to reveal our manifestation. It's already here. What you are waiting for is here waiting for you to activate it. What are you waiting for? Are you going to activate it?

So, you have a choice, you can either could and should or you can be SUCCESSFUL. Your world is whatever YOU say it is. So what do you have to say? SAY IT.

EEOOWW!!!

In Love & Light,
Joy!

So you can pretty much tell this is a planned fight from 2 girls who's probably fighting over a man. So check the girl in the back in the pink shirt is she pregnant? Funny Lines of the fight..... 1. And What Bitch!!! 2. Yeap, and its on Bitch!!! 3. They didn't jump you.

New York Jets running back Thomas Jones celebrated his 30Th birthday this past weekend at Home Nightclub in New York. Didn't Invite Me!!!!!!!!!!!! Megan was there , but of course supporting her boo!!

Here is Solange's Controversal song "F&%K The Industry" I think the lyrics are kinda cool. What are your thoughts?

Solange - "F&%k The Industry" Feat Wale (Link#1)
Solange - "F&%k The Industry" Feat Wale (Link#2)

Ciara strips down (all the way down) in the October issue of VIBE magazine, which she features in to promote her new LP 'Fantasy Ride'. Say what you want about it (and no doubt people will), but she looks g-o-o-d! SAYIT!!!

In yet another surprising development in the Republican presidential campaign, vice presidential candidate Sarah Palin confirmed in a statement Monday that her 17-year-old daughter Bristol is five months pregnant. Might as well ask Lynn Spears, Britney's Mom to run as Vice-President.

Alaska governor Palin, who was selected to be John McCain's vice president last week, said, "Bristol came to us with news that as parents we knew would make her grow up faster than we had ever planned. As Bristol faces the responsibilities of adulthood, she knows she has our unconditional love and support."

Bristol plans to marry the father of the child, 18-year-old Levi Johnston, Palin continued in the statement. "Bristol and the young man she will marry are going to realize very quickly the difficulties of raising a child, which is why they will have the love and support of our entire family."



The 44-year-old governor released the statement to combat a rumor that Bristol may have been the mother of Palin's youngest son, Trig, who was born in April.

The McCain campaign confirmed it was aware of Bristol's pregnancy before it selected Palin and said it did not affect McCain's choice.

The singer paired her Alice + Olivia dress with Aldo pumps for a spot on TRL, while the High School Musical 3 costar paired her polka-dot bubble dress with hot pink heels for a Teen Choice pre-party this weekend.



The rapper first wore her Versace dress to the BET Awards in June, with the Estee Lauder model following a few weeks later for an in-store appearance in N.Y.C. The Cheetah Girl hit the red carpet in her purple minidress in August in L.A.


It's a bump battle! The then-pregnant Jolie wore her Gerard Darel maxidress to an event in New Orleans, while the still-expecting Garner ran errands in the comfy floral frock in L.A.



Battle of the singers! Rihanna first sported her Elizabeth and James feathered vest while shopping in L.A., while Cassie hit the Vibe anniversary party a week later in hers. Amerie finished it out a few days later at an L.A. charity event.

It's all downhill for Selma Blair – working a seriously sculpted hairdo – and Molly Shannon, in character while filming a scene Wednesday for their wacky new NBC sitcom Kath & Kim in Burbank, Calif. Blair plays whiny Kim, who moves back home with her hairstylist mom Kath after separating from her husband in the show (premiering Oct. 9) based on a popular Australian comedy. Can I just say Molly Shannon is my favorite of all time!!!!

Fresh from a performance at Berlin's Olympic Stadium, Madonna takes comfort to a whole new level, wrapping herself in a soft "Dancing Queen" bathrobe as she passes through security at the Schoenefeld Airport on Thursday.

After a family dinner with 7-month-old son Max and husband Jordan Bratman the night before, a voluptuous Christina Aguilera works her sexy side Tuesday while leaving her New York City hotel.

Their cup runneth over! Heidi Klum and husband Seal take a spin in a teacup made for five – (from left) including 21-month-old son Johan, Henry, who turns 3 on Sept. 12, and Leni, 4 – during the family's visit Tuesday to Disneyland in Anaheim, Calif.

After months of promotion, the New Kids on the Block – (from left) Donnie Wahlberg, Jonathan Knight, Danny Wood, Joey McIntyre and Jordan Knight – celebrate the release of their reunion album, The Block, with a CD signing Tuesday at a Best Buy in Manhattan. The album hit stores on Sept. 2.



Chris & Ri-Ri first stopped at Radio City Music Hall, then stopped at Golden Krust for lunch and topped the afternoon off shopping for jewelry downtown. Looks like Rihanna will kill the internet rumors of her BEING BROKE with all this shopping…


Halle Berry, 42, shows off her gorgeous baby daughter Nahla Aubrey, 5 1/2 months, during a visit to the Los Angeles Zoo on Saturday afternoon. Halle’s mother, Judith, accompanies her daughter and granddaughter.

A Didntinviteme Exclusive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The 1st one to have it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Brandy's long awaited comeback video for new single 'Right Here (Departed)'premiered literally within the hour on Yahoo Music. Though the clip is pretty simplistic, it does the awesome justice. I've said it many a time, but can't say it enough "Welcome back Ms. Norwood!"

Beyonce on the cover of the latest issue on the cover for the October 2008 issue of Marie Claire UK. Sexy, yet classy...great cover.

There is mounting speculation that she will be the 'surprise' at next Monday's MTV Video Music Awards - taking to the stage to perform her highly anticipated new single. I guess time will tell... Hopefully this isn't her "I'm Back" look. Don't get me wrong she looks good, but I think she needs a new look. Really just new hair, something different that she's never had like red, or jet black, something. What are your thoughts?

In a recent interview with The Associated Press, Usher revealed that he is preparing a tour for ladies only. The 'Love In This Club' singer said he will soon announce full details of the trek, called the 'One Night Stand' tour. He said specific dates are still being worked out for about 15 "intimate" venues:
Asked why he wanted to perform a "ladies only" tour, Usher said he relishes the challenge.

"There's only a few artists that can pull that off," said the 29-year-old singer. "I feel like I've had such a connection with my audience. This album, I felt like, was definitely the type of one that was more intimate. So what better way to get up close and personal than to make it all women?"

To go with the theme, Usher is also planning his own line of lingerie and men's undergarments. He already has a fragrance and cologne.

Usher is currently working on a video for his new single Trading Places.

So all three ladies have been spotted around town with these Pierre Hardy Pumps on. For 825.00 Euro you can have your own pair as well. So who do you think rocked it?




I'm not gonna leave out my Fellas, these are my favorite pair of kicks right now from Pierre, one of my fav designers!!!!
These are limited-edition Pierre Hardy 'Cruzeiro' kicks in metallic calfskin. These futuristic shoes are available at Dover Street Market on in London. Available for both sexes, they retail for around $500!!

I promised y'all new muzik and here is more from ya boy Chris Brown called "Golden Girl" Enjoy!

Chris Brown - "Golden Girl" Feat. Andre Merrit (Link#1)
Chris Brown - "Golden Girl" Feat. Andre Merrit (Link#2)

JoJo covered T-Pain's "I Can't Believe It" and actually did a good job. What are your thoughts?


JoJo - "I Can't Believe It" (Link#1)
JoJo - "I Can't Believe It" (Link#2)

Kelly Rowland recently performed at The Astoria here in London. Peep her performance of last year's summer hit 'Like This' She seems really confident and in control of this performance. I really wish she could have the same success over here in the states soon! SAYIT!!!

The New Kids On The Block returns with their new album "The Block" in stores 2day!!!!!Here's the second single "Single" featuring Ne-Yo.

More Muzik, More Muzik!!!!! Here are 2 new songz from The PCD. What are your thoughts?

PCD -"I Hate This Part Right Here" (Link#1)
PCD -"I Hate This Part Right Here" (Link#2)

PCD - "Watchu Think About That" Feat Missy (Link#1)
PCD - "Watchu Think About That" Feat Missy (Link#2)

Monica confirmed that her forthcoming LP 'Still Standing' will be hitting stores early 2009, during a recent message to her fans. The 28 year old star cites the fact that she is still in the studio working on the record as the reason for the delay.

Speaking more on the LP, she revealed that Ne-Yo is the latest addition to the album's songwriter/producer roster, which already includes Bryan Michael Cox, Babyface and Missy Elliott. Go Monica I really hope it this album does really good for her. I will support. Say It!!!

It's the Notorious K-I-M!!! Here is some new muzik from ya fav. girl called "Caribbean Connection" Enjoy!!!


Lil' Kim "Caribbean Connection" Feat. Wyclef Jean & Movado (Link#1)
Lil' Kim "Caribbean Connection" Feat. Wyclef Jean & Movado (Link#2)

“As far as Foxy or Teairra Marì, these are people that I have given chances to. It’s understandable that they would be upset, but you got to look at it from my point of view as well,” Jay-Z told AllHipHop.com. "I gave Teairra Marì the same shot I gave Rihanna. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t.”

In her recent XXL cover feature, Foxy lamented over Jay’s lack of visitation and encouragement during her incarceration, emphasizing that everyone else in her circle made time beside him.

“There are times when I just really needed him and he just wasn’t there,” a disappointed Foxy disclosed. “That broke my heart more than anything. When they sent me to jail, I just knew he would be there, everyone came. But he never showed up.”

R&B upstart Tierra Marì is equally upset at Jay’s absence from her career.

In a July interview with AllHipHop.com, Marì expressed her hurt that the man she called a father figure would not even call to let her know she was being dropped from Roc-A-Fella Records.

Jay-Z defended his actions from the perspective of a businessman.

“You know that stuff is going to happen, eventually it’s going to happen,” Jay-Z told AllHipHop.com. “What I’m happy about is, that no matter what people say, no one has ever said that I am dishonest or that I have taken one dime from them…I’ve never cheated anyone out of a dime. No one’s ever said that, right?”

Jay-Z is currently completing work on his highly anticipated Blueprint 3, which is projected for release in early 2009. Say It!!!

We finally get confirmation that Ciara first single is indeed “Go Girl” featuring T-Pain from her upcoming third studio album Fantasy Ride. Also here are some pics of the event at the bowling alley. Say It!!!!!!

Here are 2 new songz from Songz!!!! LOL no PUN intended. Check out "Watever You Like" the T.I. cover as well.

Trey Songz - "Off The Sunset" (Link#1)
Trey Songz - "Off The Sunset" (Link#2)


Trey Songz - "Whatever You Like" (Link#1)
Trey Songz - "Whatever You Like" (Link#2)

R&B star Ne-Yo has won the lawsuit he filed against a tour promoter acting on R. Kelly's behalf, after unceremoniously being thrown off a joint tour with the 'Ignition' singer back in January. Peep the report below:
Because of some backstage machinations, Ne-Yo is a little bit richer.

The R&B star has scored a nice payday for being dumped from R. Kelly's road show last year. A Los Angeles judge has ordered Kelly's promoter to pony up $700,320 to the "Because of You" Grammy winner.

Ne-Yo went to court in December, alleging he was bounced from the Double Up tour because his opening set was getting better reaction from fans and critics than Kelly's. The bill also featured Keyshia Cole and J. Holiday.

Superior Court Judge Malcolm Mackey made his default judgment after Georgia-based Rowe Entertainment refused to respond to the lawsuit filed by Ne-Yo under his real name, Shaffer Smith.

Per his suit, Ne-Yo was supposed to earn $785,000 on the 25-date jaunt, but the 25-year-old performer was canned by Rowe after the second show on Nov. 15 and only received a fraction of the contracted amount.

At the time, the promoter blamed the dismissal on Ne-Yo's camp for not completing the proper paperwork.

JD reveals more tour info for Janet's "Rock Wit You Tour" Take a look:

Hey my Say-It'ers (is that a word?) It's a new term for my peps that love this site. Say It!!!!!!!!! is the official sign off for everything you tell someone, or if you agree with someone. It's like co-signing. For example, If you see someone who you think is cute, and your friend says "Damn she is fine" then you look at your friend and say "SAY IT!!!" Ok Sorry for the slow post over this Labor Day weekend I took a little break had a lot going on, and now I'm back at it for ya with tons of new muzik and other goodies!!!