With I Remember Me dropping this Tuesday and shaping up to be the “R&B album of the year,” it seems like a good time for the should-be Bodyguard star to reflect back on the bumpy road that got her here in the first place. Though J-Hud has seen her share of remarkable moments for a relatively new artist, it hasn’t been all Grammys and Oscars — during last night’s 20/20 interview, the “Angel” singer also opened up about how she coped with the tragic murder of her family members in 2008, amidst lighter fare like her first live performance and why she decided to slim down. Check it out below.